PREPARING YOURSELF FOR LOVE xx

I recently learned about the “READY” model: This has worked for so man people to find a safe sure love….

Re-Learn Yourself

We are advised to have an honest conversation with ourselves about your past relationships and your feelings toward love. Know what type of persons attract you and why. Are they naughty or nice? Or if they make you think twice?

Learning your patterns and behaviors within relationships is of vital importance. You must recognize your role(s), ground yourself in reality, and use this awareness when stepping forward into the unknown. Otherwise, you will fall into the same old patterns, continue to make the same old choices, and yield the same old results.

That’s why awareness is key. This time, it will be different.

Elevate the Space

Drama no more! (Remember that Mary J Blige song) Yup that’s me now… That will be your new mantra, meditation, or positive self-talk.

Get rid of all the dirty laundry (aka exes) that is no longer serving you. Make the phone call. Have the final conversation. Accept your part of the responsibility. Get the closure you need. Honor your past relationship. Now, close your eyes, take three deep breaths, figuratively catapult them from your space, open your eyes, and move forward.

Ask for What You Want

Be specific. Be outrageous. Be confident in your choices. BE AUDACIOUS!

Remember, Ask and you shall receive.

Decide to Put Yourself Out There

You must put yourself out there as much as possible, whether physically or virtually.

I remember a friend of mine asking me how I expect to meet anyone if I am always home…. or work then home lol

Put yourself out there and have fun and meet new people. You never know!

You Stay Fearless

Be patient. Be authentic. Be fearless. All good things to those who wait.

It’s not a sprint, it’s a marathon. Keep your hope alive at every minute. When hope starts to fade, return to step three, visualize your new love walking toward you and repeat. It helps.

These should help you to open the space for love. Simultaneously, you will also sharpen your character, build your confidence, discover your wants and desires, and tighten your awareness. Sounds like a win-win to me. Now, go prepare yourself for love!