HEY MOMMY, RAISING BOYS? HERE ARE SOME TIPS FOR YOU…

LISTEN…. Being a parent is a truckload of work on its own and it requires a lot of die to self from you each and every day, all that for the betterment of your child’s wellbeing. It often becomes extra hard when you are parenting on your own, let alone being a mom raising a boy child.

Raising boys as a single mom can be both incredibly rewarding and challenging, as you take on the task of shaping young men without the balance of a co-parent. When I say I am fighting for my life every single day? Yoooohhhh its rough. But I think knowing that there are so many other incredible women that have done it before me and so many others doing it with me every single day? It’s comforting…. we gone be alright. You get??

Here are some tips that might help you navigate YOUR journey that I have learned from my personal experience but also from so many other amazing mothers:

Nurture their emotions: Boys need to know it’s okay to express feelings and vulnerability. Teach them that it’s strong, not weak, to express themselves emotionally.

Be clear about boundaries: Boys need structure. Be consistent in enforcing rules and consequences, but also take time to listen and understand why they might be struggling.

Balance empathy with discipline: It’s easy to want to avoid conflict, but setting boundaries and providing clear consequences teaches responsibility and respect.

Teach respect: Instill respect for women, themselves, and others. Demonstrating kindness, fairness, and good communication helps develop emotional intelligence.

Provide diverse role models: Whether it’s through family, friends, mentors, or books, expose them to a variety of positive male role models, whether they’re your family members or public figures.

Some of the key take aways from this should be, Foster Independence and Responsibility, create a safe space for your boys, be their cheerleader, Instill a Growth Mindset, be patient and loving. Assurance of your love for them? Should be the order of the day.

Raising boys as a single mom is a deeply rewarding experience that requires patience, love, and strength. By fostering a sense of emotional security, independence, and respect, you help your sons grow into confident and caring individuals. Don’t forget to lean on your community, take care of yourself, and enjoy the ride.

Much Love,

Shai_Quan xx