In today’s fast-paced and hyperconnected world, finding time for oneself can feel like a luxury. We tend to prioritize social activities and engagements, neglecting the essential need for solitude. However, carving out dedicated time for solo dates can be incredibly beneficial for our overall well-being.
The nature of Solo Dates vary, and no Saara, sitting at the coffee shop finishing your work To-Do list does not count as a Solo Date. When you feel like the world is weighing on your shoulders you can choose to go to a restaurant or a café with a journal and a pair of earphones and work on unpacking what’s on your mind and how to resolve it. When you feel freer spirited it can include going for an activity like Go-carting or Camel riding.
You’ve heard the saying “you cannot pour from an empty cup”, time spent on your own can be seen as a way of filling your cup, and below are just some of the benefits:
1. Self-Reflection and Personal Growth:
Solo dates provide an opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth. When we spend time alone, we can ponder our thoughts, introspect, and gain valuable insights about our goals, values, and aspirations. Engaging in activities such as journaling or going on a solitary hike, can help clear the clutter from our minds, allowing us to tune in to our inner selves.
2. Building Self-Confidence and Independence:
Taking oneself out on a date fosters self-confidence and independence. It allows us to break free from the societal notion that we constantly need company to enjoy life. By stepping out of our comfort zones and embracing solo adventures, we learn to rely on ourselves, make independent decisions that allows us to answer questions like “what do you want to eat”, on your next date.
3. Unleashing Creativity and Inspiration:
When we detach ourselves from the distractions of others, we create space for our creativity to flourish. Solo dates are an excellent way to explore our interests and hobbies. The activities we do during this time spent alone can provide inspiration to rekindle our creative fire and allow our imaginations to wander freely.
In a society that often glorifies constant social interaction, embracing solo dates is an act of self-love and self-discovery. By engaging in activities alone, we nourish our minds, bodies, and spirits, fostering personal growth, self-confidence, and creativity. So, let’s prioritise our well-being and make room for solo dates in our busy lives. After all, it is in solitude that we truly find ourselves and maybe even a potential love interest, Check out Delila’s Netflix ‘You’ moment.
Written by: Delila Katanga