Seasonal Relationships

There are some seasons that I have been through that I never wanted to end. The season where I was reminded that the world can be a beautiful place filled with beautiful people.
I would like to believe that certain people come into your life for merely a season; because it has become your turn to receive, grow, learn or even share. They bring you an experience of immense peace or the kind of laughter that makes your belly ache. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unimaginable amount of joy. Believe it. It is real, but only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach lifetime lessons that you can build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

They say that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. I’ve learned people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

I want you to imagine something for a moment…Imagine a relationship with someone that’s so secure that you never have to worry about saying something that they’ll take the wrong way and pull away – just because you told them exactly how you feel.

Imagine not needing to dissect everything about your relationship. Imagine not needing to ask your friends to decode what they’re saying because the level of communication between you and them is so honest and free flowing, that there’s no need to go outside the relationship for validation. THAT IS HOW YOU KNOW IT’S FOR LIFE.

So calm down, don’t over analyze your relationships. If it’s meant to be, then it will be.