What would Shai do?

Hi Shai_Quan.

I have been listening to you for a while and I have to say that you are like a big sister to us now and appreciate how frank and open you are.

I have a situation I am going through with an ex-boyfriend of mine and I feel like I am stuck in the mud with him, literally. I have been dating this guy on and off for three years and I broke things off with him a few months ago and we have this habit of getting back together and still end up breaking up anyway.

I felt like I was not growing and getting anywhere with him in my life and I realized that I enabled a lot of toxic behavior from him and in turn I started to pick up on those habits too.

He treats me poorly and then comes back begging promising to change and treat me better. I am conflicted on taking him back its like my brain is calling me out for being a fool for love and him and my heart is stuck there.

How do I break free and move on? Or if I do get back with him how do I change the situation? I want to experience more and I am not sure if he can give me that or if I can give him that…. eish!

Fresh Breakfast